We can interpret any situation in different ways so that by opening the range of different possibilities, we can choose one that best suits us and predispose us to do what it takes to get the results we want in our lives. When we say we can not say how things are, do not say that we are denying. What we say is that are there, but we can not separate the observer of what we observe. I'm going to explain with an example. If we look at a picture: I found it: the figure (for example, two circles). The observation is: a fried egg, a sombrero, a dish … etc.
(Different comments!) From this principle and assuming that you can interpret things in different ways, I want to show the personal power you can get from this. The language that we speak and think, allows us to "tell stories" different and each has a different scope and if we consider the spaces of action available to us from them. For example, the person who tells the story "of a frustrated life, impotence and constant victim of circumstances thinking" These things happen only to me, is so difficult to change … " . What space can be found in this interpretation? I leave you the answers. If this person decides to "tell a different story" might instead choose another interpretation and think for example: "I passed through difficult times and have suffered a lot, yes, but I want to be happy and I have clear that what we think and do today directly affects my future so …".